How do I persuade my parents to let my have a cat?

Hello ,





I would love a cat , but my mum isnt too keen on them but i think my dad is ok with them because his sister used to have one. SO HOW CAN I PERSUADE MY MUM?!!How do I persuade my parents to let my have a cat?
work on your dad,maybe he can help you.


you must show responsibility, like any pet a cat is a big responsibility.How do I persuade my parents to let my have a cat?
You need to show you can take on some of the responsibility of caring for a cat. Financially, that falls on your parents, but you can do many of the daily chores. However, a cat will likely live longer than you will be home for, so when you leave home for college, a job, or whatever, it will fall upon your parents to care for your cat, since it is very unlikely you will be able to take your cat with you. So part of your job is to show responsibility for caring for the cat, and understanding their position as regards to when you leave home. You are asking them to buy into a cat for longer than you will be home for. But one way is to accept adopting a much older cat, who will not be around for 15-20 years. They give love also, and older cats are harder to find homes for.
You have to show her that you are responsible. Start by helping her do things around the house. I know how you feel because it took me a verrrry long time to convince my mom to let me bring a cat home. When I finally did convince her, it took her awhile to warm up to the cat but when she saw that I am cleaning up after him and taking good care of him, she began to love him and now she is so attached! Just remember though that a pet is a big responsibility and you should make sure you have money for vet bills, food, etc. Goodluck!!
Simple, bargain, and make her an offer she can't refuse, You can offer to do extra chores around the house, or anything that might make the deal sweeter
Pets, Cholesterol and Cardiovascular Disease





An alternative, perhaps, to prescription cholestrol drugs for lowering cardiovascular risk - strokes, heart attacks, arterial blockages, and so on.





Cardiovascular disease is one of the major causes of death in this country, accounting for 38% of deaths among all women and 33.1% among men, so finding help is a major priority for the medical community. The idea that pets help with CV disease has been floating around the medical community for a while, but the first real scientific research is just starting to come out and the results are a bit surprising.








However, can pets decrease the risks of cardiovascular disease?





Those of us who have pets know how much joy they can bring into our lives on a daily basis. I care for a Siberian Husky and a Siamese cat, and my home would be empty without them.





According to a study presented at the 2008 meeting of the American Stroke Association, cats in the home reduce the chances of death from cardiovascular disease by 30%.





The study focused on analyzing data from 4,300 Americans from 1976 to 1980 and was performed by researchers at the University of Minnesota.





During the American Heart Association meeting in 2005, another study was presented showing that a single twelve minute visit with a dog improved both heart and lung function in people with heart failure.





While the 2008 presentation didn't have any data on dogs due to lack of dog owners in the study, the researchers stated that one would probably see the same results if not better. After all, dogs make their owners get out of the house and walk on a daily basis.








Why should pets lower cardiovascular risk?





How can owning a pet reduce cardiovascular disease and death? Well, there's been a long-acknowledged connection in the medical world between psychological stress and anxiety and cardiovascular disease.


Properly cared for, pets are a well known stress reducer.





Logically, anything that reduces stress and anxiety would help with cardiovascular disease.





In addition to helping with cardiovascular disease, pets have been shown to reduce post-stroke rehabilitation time and improve the chances of survival after a serious illness or traumatic surgery.


Interaction with animals often produces a measureable drop in blood pressure.





In addition, people who don't have a reason to get up and do something often have problems with recovery because they feel useless and unnecessary to anyone. Pets need us to take care of them as much as we need their affection. While pets may be less costly than expensive medical treatments in terms of money, they require much more of an emotional investment.


Humans are very social creatures and social grooming is one of our deepest instincts.





The act of petting a cat or a dog allows us to give and recieve affection without emotional demands or relationship stress.





While everything else in the world is getting more complicated and human relationships can get downright maddening, our pets love us for who we are.


Pets don't demand anything more taxing than adequate care, feeding, and affection.





Unfortunately, there's not much data on other kinds of pets, such as turtles, snakes, or hamsters.





Some pets, such as poisonous spiders, should really be left to the experts while others, such as turtles, are pretty good for anyone interested in them.





If you already own and love one of the more exotic kinds of pets, by all means enjoy your pet!





However, if you're trying to add a pet to your family to help with stress and cardiovascular disease, stick with the classics. (P.S. Never add a cat or dog to a house with a parrot. The result will be stressful. Trust me.)





Remember that when getting a cat or a dog, you need to do your research to find the best companion.





Pets depend on us to be responsible for their well being. They trust us to do what's best for them when we bring them into our world. Therefore, be realistic about your preferences and limitations.





Siberian Huskies are lovely dogs, and I'm proud to own one, but she is an escape artist who requires two to three hours of intense play each and every day to remain happy and interested in staying home. Therefore, choose a pet that fits with your specific interests and lifestyle and both you and your pet will be happier.


Cats are often a good choice for people with limited mobility, time or space.





Cats exercise themselves, they don't require walking, and they're smaller than most dogs and take up much less space.





Even though there are dogs approximately the same size as cats, dogs still require more room to run.





Cats are generally wonderful for elderly people, as they don't require the same amount of training as a dog will to be well behaved.





Unlike cardiovascular prescription medication, they don't come with physical side effects, unless of course you're allergic to them.








Remember that the point of getting a pet is to enjoy the pet, not to help with cardiovascular disease.





If you don't like animals and are not going to bond with a pet as a family member, don't get one. Pets do require care and feeding, and if you don't like them you will find performing that care to be stressful in and of itself. That kind of defeats the point of having one.





The best place to find a pet is your local SPCA or animal rescue society. Thousands of wonderful dogs and cats need homes and someone to love. Pets adopted from shelters are guaranteed to be current on their shots and already neutered if they're old enough. If you get a young animal from a shelter, they will ask you to verify that you will neuter. Please do, there's no point to more unwanted puppies or kittens going hungry.





However, try and find out any history to the animal, an older pet may be abandoned because it had a behavioral problem.





Please don't get a puppy or a kitten from the pet store or anyone you don't know. Many pet stores get their puppies and kittens from ';puppy mills'; and these places produce dogs and cats that may die. Losing a pet is painful enough, but losing a puppy or kitten right after you get it is horrible.





\If you really want a purebred dog or cat, take the time to find and research a reputable breeder who should be happy to have you visit and see the conditions they raise animals in for yourself.
There are many benefits to being owned by your cat...





1.


Cats are Intuitive


They know instinctively when their humans need more attention or would like to be left alone. A cat will rub against your legs or jump in your lap for cuddling to take your mind off your problems. Rubbing a cat's silky soft fur is an excellent stress reliever.


2.


Cats are Playful


Dangling a yarn strand for your cat and watching as they chase the string can help keep human's from sitting in front of the television frozen for hours at a time. When the household cat decides to catch a mouse and puts it out of its misery that is also a plus.


3.


Cats are Entertaining


# Watching my cat chase my Jack Russell/Chihuahua and then jump from his reach, when he turns to catch her is great fun. She will also hide in the bathroom and watch him through the crack of the door to see him round the corner looking for her. Then she will jump on the bathroom sink and pounce on his back as he runs by.


4.


Cats are Clean


Not only does she groom herself, but she grooms everyone else in the household too. She loves to sit on the dog, as he is attempting to nap, and give him a good washing.She lets you know when her kitty litter needs scooped, and has never missed the box.


5.


Cats are Smart


Not only does she know how to out wit the mice and the dog, but she is very intelligent about what to eat and not eat. She knows she is a carnivore. She is not like the dog and will not be tricked into eating unhealthy food.


6.


Cats are Good at Relationships


My dog will try and pester me into petting him whether I am in the mood or not. Not my cat. They instinctively know when to pester, and when not. She knows that she can jump in my lap, but she knows not to jump in my husband's. She knows who is receptive to cuddling, and who is not. They interact with humans in a way that is consistent with the human's behavior.


7.


Cats are Good at Teaching Children Empathy


Gail Melson, PhD states in his book Why the Wild Things Are: Animals in the Lives of Children “The Opportunities today children have to learn about nurturing others increasingly may be coming from the pets in their homes”. He quotes many studies that have been conducted showing higher social skills, sensitivity, interpersonal trust, and ability to nurture coming from those children who were raised with a cat or dog. The bond that takes place between a child and their pet is very special and assists them in their social growth, self esteem, and maturity.


8.


Cats are Agile


They have been known to fall out windows from seven floors and survive. They can leap and climb tall trees and usually find their way back down to safety.





They Have a Healing Purr


9. Paula Peterson interviewed the president of Fauna Communications Research Institute, Elizabeth Muggenthaler. Ms. Muggenthaler is a research scientist and a bio-acoustic specialist who has done studies on various animal sounds. Her findings are absolutely amazing, and demonstrate that the frequency of a cat's purring is good for healing muscles, ligaments, tendons, and bones. It is also thought to be beneficial for other types of healing and stress relief. More information can be obtained from logging in at Fauna Communications Research Institute.


10.


They are Loyal


There have been many stories of cats that have tracked their human families down and joined them after being separated. There's a one liner that goes something like “A dog has an owner, but a cat has a staff” but it is not really that simple. There is lot more to a cat than its aloof reputation.





So next time your cat jumps in your lap and wants a little attention stop and think about what a wondrous creation a cat really is.





This is a perfectly wonderful feature about cats that can't be beat! You never have to get up at 5 A.M. to go ';walk the cat';. Or find kitty doo doo on your front greeting rug. Cats know when they have to go, and they go do it in the proper receptacle. And then, when they are done, they cover it up! What could be better? They like to keep things neat and clean, and I find that simply charming. All you have to do is poop-scoop twice a day and wash out your litter pan with soap and water every week or so. Life is good!


Are you having a debate between adopting a cat or a dog? I love dogs, but I think cats make the ideal pet! Here are five reasons why you should consider adopting a cat!





A few more things:


1. Cats are quiet.





Cats are very quiet. Now certainly, there are exceptions to this, and you can sometimes end up with a real meowy cat, which is cute. But generally, you can rely on cats to keep their cool. This means that they are ideal pets to have in living spaces where you share walls and floors, such as apartments, condominiums and townhomes. Cats seem to glide around silently, with grace! And they keep their vocalization to a minimum. This means that you can enjoy your pet in your condominium without disturbing your neighbor with a lot of barking or other pet noises.





2. Cats do not shed that much.





I have been both a dog and cat owner, and I can say that cats do shed seasonally, but overall, not as much as dogs, who seem to be much more consistent with their shedding. This is very nice. You can give them a nice brush through with the grooming comb once a day and still keep things fairly neat and clean around your home.





3. Cats are self-cleaning! No grooming or bathing necessary.





My friend owned a Bichon and she was constantly paying for grooming fees, getting the dog bathed, brushed, haircut, and primped with cute little ribbons to boot. Also, there was nail clipping sessions and a myriad of other maintenance. Cats are no stress, you just leave them to themsleves and they take care of everything. They keep themselves neat and clean and are fastidious about grooming themselves. No high fees or groomers needed! Sweet!





4. Cats pace themselves when they eat.





You know better than to leave a dog alone with a full dish of food. That food will all be gone, and maybe the bowl, too! With a cat, you can easily have a quick overnight trip without worrying if they will run out of food and water. You can fill up a couple bowls of each, and when you return the next day, you will find that they ate what they needed, not the whole bowl full just because it was there.





5. Cats use a littler box.


So you see, the advantages of owning a cat are plentiful. They are quiet, and great for apartment living, where a dog may be perceived as a nuisance. They do not shed that much, nothing that a few slipcovers and a lint brush to your clothing once in a while can't handle. They clean themselves, and you do not have to worry about groomer's fees. They pace themselves when eating, and they don't eat that much anyway. So you don't have to worry about food being polished off left and right. And the best reason, they use a littler box, which is just so civilized of them, and makes our lives so much easier. Please give these five reasons some thought when deciding on a pet, and you will find yourself reaping the joys of cat ownership.